"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this girl is weird.....

eyeloveme

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Well this girl i like a lot is very weird. She doesnt like compliments.ex. Me : those are nice pants. her : ew shut up.
but also when people are rude or what ever she just agrees with it even though its not true. Me : that shirt makes you look really fat. her : yeah i know im fat.

it just continues like that. you cant seem to offend her or compliment her. i ignore for months and she ignores me. but since we have the same friends we see each other from time to time. sometimes we talk but mainly because its part of the groups conversation, and when we do talk i end up getting rather upset and i simply walk away and ignore her. but she does the same. im not sure what would work to get her to really like me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jaun_Don

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why bother?...find some other girl that doesn't confuse you like this, there are sooooooooooooooooooooo many girls out there dude, this one sounds annoying.
 

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I dated a girl like this once. I'd neg hit her and she would throw in a negative comment. She was bytch testing me to see if I would appologize for me saying some shyt. The girl was always negative and putting herself down (calling herself fat and other stupid shyt, but the girl is skinny as ****).

These girls really aren't worth the time and effort in my opinion because they aren't happy with themselves (low self esteem). Hanging around someone who is negative gets old fast. I just ended up nexting her because she put me in a depressing kind of mood every time I talked to her.
 

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Chicks compliment each other - let them do it.

There is no need for you to compliment her. You being with her is you complimenting her - remember that! You are double complimented her - being there and adding further compliments and she is feeling flooded. Thats what she is essentially saying in ******** via her emotions.
 
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