"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This girl is so pretty

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She's like a 10/10. I play her video when I'm doing my call center work at home. Sometimes when I look at the video, it's like she's starting back and waves at me, lol Great video sync while WFH in my green light office room that's all cluttered up.

I don't think there is a prettier girl on youtube with a study with me video like that. The rest are bland and so-so cute other Chinese/Asian women there, but this one takes the cake.

In the past, my previous favorite study with me girl was this one:


But that was before I met this new girl. I even showed my elderly mother that video and she even agrees that's one pretty girl. I know how to pick good youtube videos.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can see the appeal and she's pretty, but I see girls every day who i'd much rather bang

We all have different preferences
 

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Everybody's got an opinion on that. This is what I think pretty looks like:

 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She's like a 10/10. I play her video when I'm doing my call center work at home. Sometimes when I look at the video, it's like she's starting back and waves at me, lol Great video sync while WFH in my green light office room that's all cluttered up.

I don't think there is a prettier girl on youtube with a study with me video like that. The rest are bland and so-so cute other Chinese/Asian women there, but this one takes the cake.

In the past, my previous favorite study with me girl was this one:


But that was before I met this new girl. I even showed my elderly mother that video and she even agrees that's one pretty girl. I know how to pick good youtube videos.
She looks like a ladyboy
 

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She looks like a ladyboy
I dont think so. She is a medical student. You think a ladyboy can be a good medical student? I can also pick up her feminine energy, so she is 100% woman based on my internal "this is a woman" compass.
 

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What on earth posesses you to sit there and watch this boring crap? And who in the fuhk makes a "study with me video"? Is your life that boring?

I can think of a lot better things to watch than this crap. How about start with something motivational that might spark some ambition?

This is whats wrong with people and why they are so desperate, depressed, and lonely. You sit here and perpetuate this schitt. The ones who create this content are just as delusional as the ones who digest it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's like a 10/10. I play her video when I'm doing my call center work at home. Sometimes when I look at the video, it's like she's starting back and waves at me, lol Great video sync while WFH in my green light office room that's all cluttered up.

I don't think there is a prettier girl on youtube with a study with me video like that. The rest are bland and so-so cute other Chinese/Asian women there, but this one takes the cake.

In the past, my previous favorite study with me girl was this one:


But that was before I met this new girl. I even showed my elderly mother that video and she even agrees that's one pretty girl. I know how to pick good youtube videos.
Some dudes just love Asian girls. She aight. I would say 7/10. Dont get me wrong shes hotter than many of the girls I used to date but compared to the Asian chicks I see on Instagram shes just aight.
 

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What on earth posesses you to sit there and watch this boring crap? And who in the fuhk makes a "study with me video"? Is your life that boring?

I can think of a lot better things to watch than this crap. How about start with something motivational that might spark some ambition?

This is whats wrong with people and why they are so desperate, depressed, and lonely. You sit here and perpetuate this schitt. The ones who create this content are just as delusional as the ones who digest it.
Obviously you've never done call center work.
 

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Some dudes just love Asian girls. She aight. I would say 7/10. Dont get me wrong shes hotter than many of the girls I used to date but compared to the Asian chicks I see on Instagram shes just aight.
I know eh.....some of the most exotic looking Asian girls don't come from Asia. (I'm talking about real life encounters with women now, not these videos) They come from India. There is this part in North East India known as the Seven Sisters (ie there are Seven Provinces) that are full of the most abolutely beautiful Asian looking women on the face of the Earth. I don't think allot is known abou how exotic some provinces, including Goa, in India can be.

There was an Asian looking lady at work that looked like her (ie perhaps about as pretty, with these girls, when they smile, they look super-pretty) that was into Black dudes (ie guess I wasn't Black enough to make her cut, lol) She lots her work permit status, left the office and few back to her region of India. However, now I have this study video with this lady, which I think is a healthier parasocial relationship to have compared to having a crush with someone in real life at the office, lol At least you know it's a video right, lol!
 

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She's like a 10/10. I play her video when I'm doing my call center work at home. Sometimes when I look at the video, it's like she's starting back and waves at me, lol Great video sync while WFH in my green light office room that's all cluttered up.

I don't think there is a prettier girl on youtube with a study with me video like that. The rest are bland and so-so cute other Chinese/Asian women there, but this one takes the cake.

In the past, my previous favorite study with me girl was this one:


But that was before I met this new girl. I even showed my elderly mother that video and she even agrees that's one pretty girl. I know how to pick good youtube videos.
Btw this chick is the most dangerous one to date. She is hot enough but not so hot that men will be intimidated to hit her.

Shes not hot enough to stop dudes from hitting on her. So you gonna have to on your toes constantly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think these 2 chicks are pretty af.
It's interesting but there should be more diversity of people doing the study with me video. If a lady like that was studying, I'd definitely want to spend a few hours watching her study.

The problem is I'm not sure how looking at a person speak, on mute, for example would work. It might be too distracting for a call center buffer. There are some nice White girls doing study with me videos too, I mean I can show some of them:



I just found this nice White girl today....perhaps I might try a few more video dates for variety:


Very productive threads so far! Great work.
 

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Btw this chick is the most dangerous one to date. She is hot enough but not so hot that men will be intimidated to hit her.

Shes not hot enough to stop dudes from hitting on her. So you gonna have to on your toes constantly.
It's not just that. Women like that tend to give off a very friendly and approchable vibe as well. They have a way of making you feel welcome (ie until you find out that she's into someone else, lol).
 

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Being South East Asian myself, I prefer hipster Asian girls with personality. But at the end of the day I'll settle for a Latina with a good Christian, religious and traditional background. But I gotta admit, there's plenty of cute Filipinas out here where I'm at, I'm going to go to the Park in a bit to take a walk cause it's morning here. Might say hi to a couple if I pass by any.
 

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Being South East Asian myself, I prefer hipster Asian girls with personality. But at the end of the day I'll settle for a Latina with a good Christian, religious and traditional background. But I gotta admit, there's plenty of cute Filipinas out here where I'm at, I'm going to go to the Park in a bit to take a walk cause it's morning here. Might say hi to a couple if I pass by any.
You should talk to them and put them on your youtube channel. HD video, have a nice conversation with a good woman and talk about something that would be video-worthy. You can start interviews by introducing yourself, that you have a channel, and try an opinion opener, and try to get her to talk on camera. You can do whatever you want with her after (ie if she agrees to this, likely she'll be open to giving you her number or an opportunity to extend the interaction further). We are all rooting for you to succeed with your women there, but share some of the energy on the video.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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