"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl is either trying to flatter me or...

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...very unknowledgeable about cars.

I was texting a girl and asked her if she had a car cuz she's 17. She said yes and then asked if I had a car and what kind it was. I said I drove a Cavalier. Then she said "That's my dream car!". Is she bull****ting? Lol...just to get me to like her or what? No one's favorite car is a Cavalier....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She probably thinks its a different car. She might be imagining a mustang lol.

Message her back and tell her she must be thinking of a different car.
 
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This texting went on a couple days ago. She said it was her dream car and I texted back, "You sure about that?"...implying she was thinking it was a different car. She didn't change her mind.
 
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Well, whatever. Just go with the flow. Ask her if she wants to come check out the backseat.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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More irrelavent sh*t.
 
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justin_o88 said:
No one's favorite car is a Cavalier....
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Haha you got that right, buddy. Maybe she was being sarcastic or playful with you, but then again, lots of girls in my area drive those little compact cars. Cobalts, Cavaliers, Sunfires, their all pretty similar in my opinion. I drive a taurus, that thing is a boat, but oh well, it's got a sunroof that's all I need.

Anyway, back to the subject. Yeah you're definitely analyzing a bit too much, it's just conversation. Just be cute and playful with her.
 
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