"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This girl is either trying to flatter me or...

justin_o88

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...very unknowledgeable about cars.

I was texting a girl and asked her if she had a car cuz she's 17. She said yes and then asked if I had a car and what kind it was. I said I drove a Cavalier. Then she said "That's my dream car!". Is she bull****ting? Lol...just to get me to like her or what? No one's favorite car is a Cavalier....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zzeitgeist

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She probably thinks its a different car. She might be imagining a mustang lol.

Message her back and tell her she must be thinking of a different car.
 

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This texting went on a couple days ago. She said it was her dream car and I texted back, "You sure about that?"...implying she was thinking it was a different car. She didn't change her mind.
 

zzeitgeist

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Well, whatever. Just go with the flow. Ask her if she wants to come check out the backseat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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More irrelavent sh*t.
 

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justin_o88 said:
No one's favorite car is a Cavalier....
Haha you got that right, buddy. Maybe she was being sarcastic or playful with you, but then again, lots of girls in my area drive those little compact cars. Cobalts, Cavaliers, Sunfires, their all pretty similar in my opinion. I drive a taurus, that thing is a boat, but oh well, it's got a sunroof that's all I need.

Anyway, back to the subject. Yeah you're definitely analyzing a bit too much, it's just conversation. Just be cute and playful with her.
 
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