"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This girl is a mystery..

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Wassup fellas,

Here's the deal.. I've been talking to this Irish chick for a couple days now as I met her online a couple days ago. I've already talked to her on the phone and everything.

Now, let me just clear one thing up before I continue. I do meet TONS of ladies offline in the real world and see alot of them, but I thought I'd open up some new avenues by exploring what the online scene has. Alright, let me continue...

Normally, I'll be signed on to MSN messenger and don't even make the effort to talk to her when I'm online, but it seems she message me WHENEVER she sees me on.

The thing that boggles my mind is that I'm normally having to carry things since she either has a) no social skills(even though I have seen her quite a bit on her webcam and IS hot) or b) SHE HAS NO SOCIAL SKILLS.. lol..

Tell me what you think.. Is she playing hard to get? or just a girl with NO personality?

I'm thinking I'm just gonna give it up and move on.. I'm just keep talking to other girls no matter the case..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The very fact that your asking this shows me that she is on of the few if not the only girl in your life.

She just has no personality i fail to see the mystery.

Get over it.

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Mason

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
The very fact that your asking this shows me that she is on of the few if not the only girl in your life.

She just has no personality i fail to see the mystery.

Get over it.

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Thanks for the advice.. it's sound. Oh and thanks for givin' me a laugh. :crackup:
 
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Its not like she has no personality that is her personality.

I had a gf that was the exact same way, she could never could carry on a conversation. Not to mention she was really shy so you can imagine how she was when around my friends.

So if you don't mind being the backbone and the glue that holds the relationship together, the person who carrys the converation all the time and your the only one that voices an opinion then by all means go for her. If not then leave it alone, it will save you alot of headache.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Its not like she has no personality that is her personality.

I had a gf that was the exact same way, she could never could carry on a conversation. Not to mention she was really shy so you can imagine how she was when around my friends.

So if you don't mind being the backbone and the glue that holds the relationship together, the person who carrys the converation all the time and your the only one that voices an opinion then by all means go for her. If not then leave it alone, it will save you alot of headache.
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Wow.. your right on the money I think.. Call me crazy, but I like girls that can sort of present some challenge factor and engage in the chase.. Otherwise, I just get bored FAST.. I'm sure many can identify.. Thanks for the input. ;)
 
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