"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This girl is a mystery..

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Wassup fellas,

Here's the deal.. I've been talking to this Irish chick for a couple days now as I met her online a couple days ago. I've already talked to her on the phone and everything.

Now, let me just clear one thing up before I continue. I do meet TONS of ladies offline in the real world and see alot of them, but I thought I'd open up some new avenues by exploring what the online scene has. Alright, let me continue...

Normally, I'll be signed on to MSN messenger and don't even make the effort to talk to her when I'm online, but it seems she message me WHENEVER she sees me on.

The thing that boggles my mind is that I'm normally having to carry things since she either has a) no social skills(even though I have seen her quite a bit on her webcam and IS hot) or b) SHE HAS NO SOCIAL SKILLS.. lol..

Tell me what you think.. Is she playing hard to get? or just a girl with NO personality?

I'm thinking I'm just gonna give it up and move on.. I'm just keep talking to other girls no matter the case..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The very fact that your asking this shows me that she is on of the few if not the only girl in your life.

She just has no personality i fail to see the mystery.

Get over it.

Ninja Out
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
The very fact that your asking this shows me that she is on of the few if not the only girl in your life.

She just has no personality i fail to see the mystery.

Get over it.

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Thanks for the advice.. it's sound. Oh and thanks for givin' me a laugh. :crackup:
 
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Its not like she has no personality that is her personality.

I had a gf that was the exact same way, she could never could carry on a conversation. Not to mention she was really shy so you can imagine how she was when around my friends.

So if you don't mind being the backbone and the glue that holds the relationship together, the person who carrys the converation all the time and your the only one that voices an opinion then by all means go for her. If not then leave it alone, it will save you alot of headache.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Its not like she has no personality that is her personality.

I had a gf that was the exact same way, she could never could carry on a conversation. Not to mention she was really shy so you can imagine how she was when around my friends.

So if you don't mind being the backbone and the glue that holds the relationship together, the person who carrys the converation all the time and your the only one that voices an opinion then by all means go for her. If not then leave it alone, it will save you alot of headache.
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Wow.. your right on the money I think.. Call me crazy, but I like girls that can sort of present some challenge factor and engage in the chase.. Otherwise, I just get bored FAST.. I'm sure many can identify.. Thanks for the input. ;)
 
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