I am still not sure if this is a troll thread or not LolThis is absolutely hilarious. You need to get yourself away from her permanently and immediately though.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I am still not sure if this is a troll thread or not LolThis is absolutely hilarious. You need to get yourself away from her permanently and immediately though.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Try this one:I've told her that she's the one gaslighting, but then she says I'm just projecting and being toxic.
Once you say back they have no comeback. Unless of course they go to the police and report you for being a man.Try this one:
Yeah? Well I'm rubber, and you're glue and what you say bounces off me and sticks to you!
100% not, dude. We seem to have broken up but friendly. In the meantime she told all her family to go **** themselves because they accused her of being emotionally unstable. I think she's BPD, hardcore. But she isn't open to the idea. Her plan is to buy a plane ticket to somewhere warm and that's where the plan ends.I am still not sure if this is a troll thread or not Lol
Would probably be dismissed before going to court.What I'm doing isn't gaslighting, She's the one doing it, 100%. I'm just not sure how this case would go in court because she's a wahman.
I've told her that she's the one gaslighting, but then she says I'm just projecting and being toxic.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This story is gold, brother. And could be a great story for future dates you go on.And then showed me in the legal documents in the government's website that such mental abuse is a crime and I could be prosecuted.
Still dumbfounded and processing this one.
Why are you dating retards? I went out with a girl and she was promoting BLM and race baiting. For starters, this is the UK. Second, I don't care. I want my D sucked. Not hear about her politics or virtue signaling. If she pretends to be a activist maybe people will think she's a good person. Is probably out having abortions and selling poison milk to school children. I lost her number and left. Race baiting is a deal breaker. She said she wanted to teach our kids about racism. ***** PLEASE. I just met her dumb ass.And then showed me in the legal documents in the government's website that such mental abuse is a crime and I could be prosecuted.
Still dumbfounded and processing this one.
And then showed me in the legal documents in the government's website that such mental abuse is a crime and I could be prosecuted.
Still dumbfounded and processing this one.
I followed Astrology and practice occultism. I am not referring to magazine Astrology, but serious shyt. I have never told a woman a word about my believes and never ever have I started a conversation with any of them about her horoscope and shyt. Never, because I find it femenine. It is a teaching that actually came from my mother and I believe in it after a few observations and materialisations, but I don't depend on it. If I were you I would simply ignore her. Do not make fun of her believes. By the way, I don't remember any chick that I ever fvck say anything about astrology to me. Anyway, dont get involved in it. She doesn't care weather you believes or not, she only wants to see how you react.And then showed me in the legal documents in the government's website that such mental abuse is a crime and I could be prosecuted.
Still dumbfounded and processing this one.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.