"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This girl I dated 9 years ago liked a fb pic

johnywhite17

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What do I do? I know this means she likes me again and I love her too, but she's dating the same guy she cheated on me with still.
She admitted that she used to call me while he was "doing" her and try to talk to me without moaning. I always thought she would be back but the thing is I'm not sure how I play it from here. She's bpd so I have to be careful, and an angel so no physical seduction..

**This is the kind of pathetic nonsense I'm seeing on her almost daily. This board has some great content and great contributing members but there really needs to be a oneitis/afc/just got dumped forum because these threads give this site a bad image. I'm a forum lurk but I can't stand how these kinds of threads are ruining a great resource.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MattTheW

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I was just about to rip into you, until I read the second paragraph!!
 
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