"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This girl I dated 9 years ago liked a fb pic

johnywhite17

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What do I do? I know this means she likes me again and I love her too, but she's dating the same guy she cheated on me with still.
She admitted that she used to call me while he was "doing" her and try to talk to me without moaning. I always thought she would be back but the thing is I'm not sure how I play it from here. She's bpd so I have to be careful, and an angel so no physical seduction..

**This is the kind of pathetic nonsense I'm seeing on her almost daily. This board has some great content and great contributing members but there really needs to be a oneitis/afc/just got dumped forum because these threads give this site a bad image. I'm a forum lurk but I can't stand how these kinds of threads are ruining a great resource.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was just about to rip into you, until I read the second paragraph!!
 
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