"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This girl has been dropping signs since 8th, but she has now stepped it up.

ManinNeed

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(were Jr's in HS now) As I type this, I'd say I'm about a 8.5-9.5 on looks scale.



I'll try to make it quick, during a college field trip, we were standing up, and she told me to stand by her, and then she wrapped her arm around mine and started pressing it up on her breast, and pusting har ass aginst my saide and all that. (infront of people) I've known her for 4 years, I know she is not a virgin, but she's not a hoe.


Next day after lunch she comes up to me and we talk for about 30 sec down the hallway.


Today, we were in the same class, and I just said hi to her as I was going to lunch. After lunch back in the class room she comes up, gives me a hug, presses her thigh up agianst my shoulder for a little bit, then backs off and we talk for a bit.

Then her 'healthy' friend kept begging her to come over to her so she can tell her about something, so she tells her to wait, gives me a hug, then goes over. (many think I was being ****blocked)

After class she left the room as fast as she could leaving her friend behind....maybe she had to go to the bathroom, or her friend said somethign to her.:rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spelunker said:
So.... what do you want us to do?
Its fairly self-explanatory at this point.
I hope.
I was wondering about her friend calling her over to "tell her something" and she speeding out of the class as fast as possible when the bell rung. blah, I'm probably just being paranoid I guess.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ain't this a *****!!!!! Heh, I might have messed up, but I learned.

Me: hay I hope this day been treating you well.

Me: say's something about why I'm pissed off, and she asks why.


Her: ah, cheer up (hug and pat on back)

Her: blah blah, I start work today, since my injury, I don't wanna go to work, I can't wait to get out of school.(I should have asked her what she was gonna do)


Her: You're going to math, seee I remebered.

Me:>_> I didn't here what call she said she was in yesterday.

*pats arm and leaves*

Maybe I'll put on the charming smile, and ask her how was her first day of work, then start to say some funny ish.
 
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