"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This girl has been dropping signs since 8th, but she has now stepped it up.

ManinNeed

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(were Jr's in HS now) As I type this, I'd say I'm about a 8.5-9.5 on looks scale.



I'll try to make it quick, during a college field trip, we were standing up, and she told me to stand by her, and then she wrapped her arm around mine and started pressing it up on her breast, and pusting har ass aginst my saide and all that. (infront of people) I've known her for 4 years, I know she is not a virgin, but she's not a hoe.


Next day after lunch she comes up to me and we talk for about 30 sec down the hallway.


Today, we were in the same class, and I just said hi to her as I was going to lunch. After lunch back in the class room she comes up, gives me a hug, presses her thigh up agianst my shoulder for a little bit, then backs off and we talk for a bit.

Then her 'healthy' friend kept begging her to come over to her so she can tell her about something, so she tells her to wait, gives me a hug, then goes over. (many think I was being ****blocked)

After class she left the room as fast as she could leaving her friend behind....maybe she had to go to the bathroom, or her friend said somethign to her.:rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Spelunker said:
So.... what do you want us to do?
Its fairly self-explanatory at this point.
I hope.
I was wondering about her friend calling her over to "tell her something" and she speeding out of the class as fast as possible when the bell rung. blah, I'm probably just being paranoid I guess.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ManinNeed

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Ain't this a *****!!!!! Heh, I might have messed up, but I learned.

Me: hay I hope this day been treating you well.

Me: say's something about why I'm pissed off, and she asks why.


Her: ah, cheer up (hug and pat on back)

Her: blah blah, I start work today, since my injury, I don't wanna go to work, I can't wait to get out of school.(I should have asked her what she was gonna do)


Her: You're going to math, seee I remebered.

Me:>_> I didn't here what call she said she was in yesterday.

*pats arm and leaves*

Maybe I'll put on the charming smile, and ask her how was her first day of work, then start to say some funny ish.
 
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