Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This girl goes M.I.A. for Thanksgiving.

PimpOfTheSouth

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I had been talking to a girl for about 3 months that I met at work. My goal was to not get close but I kind of did. She would comeover to my apartment frequently and hang out. When we met she was coming off of a relationship, so I was weary from the beginning..I know how that goes.

She had began to get a little agressive with me as far as trying to get me to go to family events and such and such and I was just about to drop her. On monday last week after we messed around I seen a text come through her phone from an unknown number sayying "baby!" im pretty sure that was the EX. and all the sudden something changed she stopped texting me "Goodmorning" which I knew was a bad sign. She texted me Thanksgiving morning and told me she missed me and hoped to see me soon. I talked to her once more on Sat. morning after she worked BLACK FRIDAY. I called her and she said she felt sick and I told her to text me later.

Long story short she never did. I called her that night no answer I believe my call was rejected. I think it's pretty obvious she's went back to her ex which im sure was in town for the "Thanksgiving break". I'm pretty sure I know what's going on here guys, just would like some insight from a few of you. I think I got a little to close. Shame on me for not remembering the rules.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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st_99

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yes, you were simply something to do instead of her being lonely. doesnt mean she was repulsed by you, she may have even kind of liked you but you have to understand that its hard to compete with an ex LTR that wont let go. you had no shot of making anything of it because she wasnt ready for that, maybe if you were brad pitt or something..

simply put, its just a process a b1tch has to go through before she completely rids herself of him. your timing was off.

it happens.
 

teakroy

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I always hear the stupid Lie. I am so sick ... [RED FLAG]

This is just a excuse to get rid of you.

If you want closure to her will no be the best thing to go at her place and see what the **** is going on ?
 

Burroughs

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You know what would be some funny Sh!t..

she got a friend to send the 'baby' text knowing you'd see it and get jealous....

but naw....most biyaches ain't that clever

she just got back with her old D1ck so sayonara to you.....its all good...find new puzzy
 
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