"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This girl goes M.I.A. for Thanksgiving.

PimpOfTheSouth

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I had been talking to a girl for about 3 months that I met at work. My goal was to not get close but I kind of did. She would comeover to my apartment frequently and hang out. When we met she was coming off of a relationship, so I was weary from the beginning..I know how that goes.

She had began to get a little agressive with me as far as trying to get me to go to family events and such and such and I was just about to drop her. On monday last week after we messed around I seen a text come through her phone from an unknown number sayying "baby!" im pretty sure that was the EX. and all the sudden something changed she stopped texting me "Goodmorning" which I knew was a bad sign. She texted me Thanksgiving morning and told me she missed me and hoped to see me soon. I talked to her once more on Sat. morning after she worked BLACK FRIDAY. I called her and she said she felt sick and I told her to text me later.

Long story short she never did. I called her that night no answer I believe my call was rejected. I think it's pretty obvious she's went back to her ex which im sure was in town for the "Thanksgiving break". I'm pretty sure I know what's going on here guys, just would like some insight from a few of you. I think I got a little to close. Shame on me for not remembering the rules.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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st_99

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yes, you were simply something to do instead of her being lonely. doesnt mean she was repulsed by you, she may have even kind of liked you but you have to understand that its hard to compete with an ex LTR that wont let go. you had no shot of making anything of it because she wasnt ready for that, maybe if you were brad pitt or something..

simply put, its just a process a b1tch has to go through before she completely rids herself of him. your timing was off.

it happens.
 

teakroy

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I always hear the stupid Lie. I am so sick ... [RED FLAG]

This is just a excuse to get rid of you.

If you want closure to her will no be the best thing to go at her place and see what the **** is going on ?
 

Burroughs

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You know what would be some funny Sh!t..

she got a friend to send the 'baby' text knowing you'd see it and get jealous....

but naw....most biyaches ain't that clever

she just got back with her old D1ck so sayonara to you.....its all good...find new puzzy
 
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