This girl embarrassed me infront of everyone

[jamil3]

Well I was sitting down and this girl was just staring at me blankly From the other side ofthe room Then This girl standing behind her pushed her really hard to the point of falling and said move the girl got back up, looked at me and Just said "EWW" really quickly infront of everybody that was really embarrassing for me because it was a room full of people and now I don't know whether I could go back into that room ever again the day after the incident i was in the same room and she just stood there and started staring I have a meeting in that room again and she's going to be in there And Its making me nervous do i say something to her or do I leave her?

 

[Atom Smasher]

What are the exact circumstances? What kind of meeting is this? Give us some context.

 

[Tictac]

What other people think of you is none of your business.

 

[TheSlasher]

What other people think of you is none of your business.

I don't fully agree. The point is merely not to be bothered by negative and positive views of people about us, if the circumstances don't ask for it. But there are instances where it is in your business, such as when we're talking about the people in your workplace.

But then again yeah, based on OP's lack of structure in his post, he could possibly be still in distress because of what happened. Give us details.

 

[jamil3]

What are the exact circumstances? What kind of meeting is this? Give us some context.

It's A job meeting Actually and the girl was in trouble with her boss I think,I don't even know yhis girl I only saw in that room on this one occassion,but i was sitting down and she was on the other side,I wasn't paying much attention to what she was doing But when Her boss pushed her and told her to move she quickly got up and Glanced at me From the other side And just say "EURGH".

 

[jamil3]

I don't fully agree. The point is merely not to be bothered by negative and positive views of people about us, if the circumstances don't ask for it. But there are instances where it is in your business, such as when we're talking about the people in your workplace.

But then again yeah, based on OP's lack of structure in his post, he could possibly be still in distress because of what happened. Give us details.

It's A job meeting Actually and the girl was in trouble with her boss I think,I don't even know the girl I only saw her in that room on this one occassion and i was sitting down and she was on the other side,I wasn't paying much attention to what she was doing But when Her boss pushed her and told her to move she quickly got up and Glanced at me From the other side And just say "EURGH" .

 

[zinc4]

I disagree about being the bigger person and all that nice acting stuff... this chick is nasty abd rude abd display ed bullying behavior....she needs to be put in her place... certain behavior s in our society need to not only not be tolerated but also need to be punished...

I would confront her and just look at her like you want to kill her if she disrespect s u again...put some healthy fear in her...my words would be I don't know u but don't ever direspect me again *****...when she says something back, I would say last warning skank and calmly walk away and then ignore her from then on.....women shouldn't get away with crap like this.

 

[marmel75]

I would have laughed and said no need to worry, I'm only interested in pretty girls, then smiled at her and walked away unbothered by it...

Why do you care what others think of you?

 

[Sino Zane]

Who cares? We've all been embarrassed. We've all done embarrassing stuff. Just ignore the dumb moron and go about your life. "I'm a F*CKING boss - F*CK that b*tch" is the frame that you should have, my friend. Now BELIEVE it.

 

[MOTU]

Her boss pushed her down? Wtf kind of work meeting is that?

 

[TheSlasher]

So it concerns your job, YOUR job. Is her opinion of you part of your livelihood?

 

[Atom Smasher]

First, you work with a bunch of creeps.

Secondly, you're too sensitive about the behavior of said creeps.

Thirdly, we train people how to treat us. The thing to do is to bide your time and wait for an opportunity to put her in her place if she continues her rude behavior.

I wise man once told me, "You can always tell them "F you" tomorrow". He meant that we should wait until the optimal moment to strike, a time when they are most vulnerable.

You must weigh whether or not this person is actually someone who needs to be dealt with or is just an annoying gnat who is not worth your time and attention.

 

[Dreama]

I disagree about being the bigger person and all that nice acting stuff... this chick is nasty abd rude abd display ed bullying behavior....she needs to be put in her place... certain behavior s in our society need to not only not be tolerated but also need to be punished...

I would confront her and just look at her like you want to kill her if she disrespect s u again...put some healthy fear in her...my words would be I don't know u but don't ever direspect me again *****...when she says something back, I would say last warning skank and calmly walk away and then ignore her from then on.....women shouldn't get away with crap like this.

I kinda agree with Zinc.

jamil3, Just look at her in the eye and say "come here" in a very serious tone

tell her "what did you just said?" at this point she will apologize

if not, just tell her "the way you behave is pathetic"

and walk away like you are the good person, and she's the bad one.

you don't need to react more than that.

Believe me, just walking away feeling like you are the good person is a HUGE self-esteem boost.

Very good topic, by the way.

 

[johnywhite17]

Had an almost identical situation. This girl was a bartender that my friend (who I was with) knew. He introduced her to me, and I said "Nice to meet you, I'm ____" She responded by saying "EWWW" like a child. I looked her dead in the eyes and said "Excuse me?" with the tone a father uses when their daughter says something way out of line. She instantly looked nervous and embarrassed, as if she had no idea how to not look like a c*nt. She akwardly spit out something like "I'm sorry I was only kidding." It was eye opening how dumbfounded she was to have someone call her out. This sounds like a fake story, but I'm not saying I'm a badass, I just couldn't believe her so I responded 100% instinctively and it turned out be a response that had a powerful effect on her.

 

[Brosy]

Her boss pushed her down? Wtf kind of work meeting is that?

Why is everyone else skipping over this!? where is Human Resources? WHAT IS GOING ON!

Is the OP A) in the slave trade B) in the army?

 

[johnywhite17]

Why is everyone else skipping over this!? where is Human Resources? WHAT IS GOING ON!

Is the OP A) in the slave trade B) in the army?

No offense to the OP but he doesn't come across as someone who has a very great education. Ok, there is no way to say that without being offensive but it's pretty clear. That or he doesn't care to use it when he's on the Internet. I'm guessing it was an employees meeting at a restaurant or something where that wouldn't be too out of line. I'm assuming he is exaggerating the push or maybe didn't get a clear veiw, maybe she got shoulder bumped and lost her balance. That's what I'm picturing.

 

[adam225]

Just call her ugly, it will bother her 1000x more.

 

[mangotot]

The whole thing sounds like really unprofessional behaviour from the girl(s) concerned. Ignore it and move on.