"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This girl asks me....

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Budda57

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This girl that I'm interested in asks me to go rock climbing this weekend. (Well, not actually all weekend) She going with her roomates (2 girls) and they're driving up the night before. At this point in the conversation I'm all for it and ready to go!

But then I ask her where she is staying. She says out of the corner of her mouth "at my boyfriend house." That right there puts up some red flags in my mind.


What do you guys think? Should I go and have fun with her roomates in front of her. Or not go at all?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CORVETTE06

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u can forget about that girl. she sounds like a tease. do you like any of her roomates? where are they sleeping? do they have boyfriends? if you like one of them, then go on the trip and go after one of them
 
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First of all, the first red flag is going with her friends.

Have you kissed her yet? I'm guessing not. You're in the LJBF zone.

Next the bytch, and next time aim to at least get a kiss on the first "date", or else, next her.
 
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Thanks for the comments......

I have met her boyfriend and her roommates only once. (playing frizbee)

Her roommates were cute.
 
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Hitman10000

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Ugh, it sounds like a big trap, but if you want to try to get something out of it, you can be nice (but be a man still) and hopefully one of her 'girlfriends' will take a liking in you. You can "use" this LJBF girl as a social pivot to her other friends, but focus on being friends with this LJBF gal first.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey clueless:D - ske wants you there because one of her friends asked her to invite you -- one of them likes you --- they saw you before --- go get 'em!
 
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