"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This girl asks me....

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Budda57

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This girl that I'm interested in asks me to go rock climbing this weekend. (Well, not actually all weekend) She going with her roomates (2 girls) and they're driving up the night before. At this point in the conversation I'm all for it and ready to go!

But then I ask her where she is staying. She says out of the corner of her mouth "at my boyfriend house." That right there puts up some red flags in my mind.


What do you guys think? Should I go and have fun with her roomates in front of her. Or not go at all?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CORVETTE06

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u can forget about that girl. she sounds like a tease. do you like any of her roomates? where are they sleeping? do they have boyfriends? if you like one of them, then go on the trip and go after one of them
 
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First of all, the first red flag is going with her friends.

Have you kissed her yet? I'm guessing not. You're in the LJBF zone.

Next the bytch, and next time aim to at least get a kiss on the first "date", or else, next her.
 
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Thanks for the comments......

I have met her boyfriend and her roommates only once. (playing frizbee)

Her roommates were cute.
 
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Hitman10000

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Ugh, it sounds like a big trap, but if you want to try to get something out of it, you can be nice (but be a man still) and hopefully one of her 'girlfriends' will take a liking in you. You can "use" this LJBF girl as a social pivot to her other friends, but focus on being friends with this LJBF gal first.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey clueless:D - ske wants you there because one of her friends asked her to invite you -- one of them likes you --- they saw you before --- go get 'em!
 
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