Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This girl asks me....

Budda57

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This girl that I'm interested in asks me to go rock climbing this weekend. (Well, not actually all weekend) She going with her roomates (2 girls) and they're driving up the night before. At this point in the conversation I'm all for it and ready to go!

But then I ask her where she is staying. She says out of the corner of her mouth "at my boyfriend house." That right there puts up some red flags in my mind.


What do you guys think? Should I go and have fun with her roomates in front of her. Or not go at all?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CORVETTE06

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u can forget about that girl. she sounds like a tease. do you like any of her roomates? where are they sleeping? do they have boyfriends? if you like one of them, then go on the trip and go after one of them
 

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First of all, the first red flag is going with her friends.

Have you kissed her yet? I'm guessing not. You're in the LJBF zone.

Next the bytch, and next time aim to at least get a kiss on the first "date", or else, next her.
 

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Thanks for the comments......

I have met her boyfriend and her roommates only once. (playing frizbee)

Her roommates were cute.
 

Hitman10000

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Ugh, it sounds like a big trap, but if you want to try to get something out of it, you can be nice (but be a man still) and hopefully one of her 'girlfriends' will take a liking in you. You can "use" this LJBF girl as a social pivot to her other friends, but focus on being friends with this LJBF gal first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey clueless:D - ske wants you there because one of her friends asked her to invite you -- one of them likes you --- they saw you before --- go get 'em!
 
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