"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This Girl and The Show

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HollowHorizon

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I met this girl on myspace. She knows my ex's sister and last night i was at a rockshow in the booths and she came up and talked to me. We really dident talk much because of the music and stuff.. I forgot to make eye contact to.. Then i told her it was nice meeting her and gave her a hug... Where did i go wrong? This used to be so easy.. I noticed when i gave eye contact to her or her friend they smiled...Its almost hyipnotizing... Anyway how can i do better next time...Or even get to do this again...Im really lost and i dont wanna loose my Dj Touch...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Erm... how do you 'forget' to make eye contact? If you're interested in a person, you look at them. Generally speaking, if they're interested they'll look back. She obviously wanted to talk to you or she wouldn't have been the one to make the approach - you should have capitalized on that instead of cutting yourself short by ending things prematurely.

I don't quite understand your question about "will i ever be able to do this again...". Talk to a girl? Make eye contact?

As for doing better, it sounds like you already know what you did wrong... Repeat the same behavior, you'll get the same results.
 
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