"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HollowHorizon

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I met this girl on myspace. She knows my ex's sister and last night i was at a rockshow in the booths and she came up and talked to me. We really dident talk much because of the music and stuff.. I forgot to make eye contact to.. Then i told her it was nice meeting her and gave her a hug... Where did i go wrong? This used to be so easy.. I noticed when i gave eye contact to her or her friend they smiled...Its almost hyipnotizing... Anyway how can i do better next time...Or even get to do this again...Im really lost and i dont wanna loose my Dj Touch...

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Erm... how do you 'forget' to make eye contact? If you're interested in a person, you look at them. Generally speaking, if they're interested they'll look back. She obviously wanted to talk to you or she wouldn't have been the one to make the approach - you should have capitalized on that instead of cutting yourself short by ending things prematurely.

I don't quite understand your question about "will i ever be able to do this again...". Talk to a girl? Make eye contact?

As for doing better, it sounds like you already know what you did wrong... Repeat the same behavior, you'll get the same results.
 
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