"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

This forum is getting too depressing

legolas

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2003
Messages
951
Reaction score
14
Location
Red Sox Nation
{RANT} Where are the mods?

This forum has become so desssspicable, I can't even come in here anymore to get a little boost. It's going the path of the main forum which has become unreadable because of so much whining. With all the good guys leaving, I don't even know whey I should keep coming back.
{/RANT}
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

ElChoclo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2005
Messages
593
Reaction score
11
Location
Sydney
Valid point Legolas, but it isn't really even the whining. Some guys lay out a long winded story which doesn't even pose a question or make a point. It is more like an inane personal observation. I ate eggs for breakfast today. That type of deep insightful prose.

At least they could make it half interesting. I had a threesome for breakfast today. That would make better reading.
 

taosk8r

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 5, 2006
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Location
Corvallis, OR
I think the solution is to be proactive.. Start posting some great sarge/lay reports, well, normally I would say start going David DeAngelo on some dudes and bust thier balls for being wussy, but such is against the rules.. I dunno, post some threads asking for success stories.. I think we as a community, and in the world at large have to start being more creative when we whine about stuff in terms of coming up with solutions.. That isn't directed at anyone, just a general observation. It has always frustrated me reading stuff like letters to the editor, or electronics product reviews. Nobody writes in to point out something bad, AND point out some creative solutions. All the people that diss a particular producs generally fail to offer an alternative.. Lets start doing something about the problem, or at least start collectively brainstorming some solution ideas..
 

Duffty

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2005
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
Age
47
The forum have many great old post and FR archived. But now it's increased number of spam.

Many new WBAFC signed up to the forums but didn't complete boot camp, even fail to READ DJ bible. Trolls/Keyboard jockey and very low quality writting/posting skills. Low quality thread with no beginning & ending, no main points or main discussion topic.

New material WILL come from new people and new experience. I still have hope, bcos the old posts give TONNS of tips and it's about practising it in field.

I suggest re-read old posts by Master DJs, look at every angle and practise what works for you. Re-read DJ bible, and complete boot camp, FR, cold approach etc.

Good luck, don't give up.
 

Cruise

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
423
Reaction score
6
I DO wish I was here for those glory days of yonder.

However, I guess it's only natural progression that calls for new leadership, no?

WHO'S UP TO BAT!?!?!?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

speedo_meme

Banned
Joined
Jul 26, 2005
Messages
497
Reaction score
3
legolas said:
{RANT} Where are the mods?

This forum has become so desssspicable, I can't even come in here anymore to get a little boost. It's going the path of the main forum which has become unreadable because of so much whining. With all the good guys leaving, I don't even know whey I should keep coming back.
{/RANT}
You're whining about other people whining. Why not contribute to an intelligent conversation instead of starting a stupid one?
 

DoubleA

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2003
Messages
429
Reaction score
1
Age
52
Location
Washington Metro Area
Agreed​
 
Top