This forum is a sinking ship

[The Count]

It's going down Titanic style.

I've never seen so much over-analyzing in one forum. Approach journals, 50 hellos, etc. Give me a break, that's weak. The real problem in here is simple - most of the people in here are LOSERS. It's the honest truth. They sit on their PC's every weekend eating Cheetos and drinking soda, and they wonder why they don't have a girlfriend. They wonder why the guy with a car and a job has a pretty girl. It's not rocket science people. Maybe if most of you weren't shut-ins, you'd have better success. Take a normal guy for example. He sees a hot girl in the checkout lane and thinks "Damn I'm going in her line." Take the guy from this site and what happens? Nothing. The knees start to buckle instantly. He's so used to the comforts of World of Warcraft he can't fathom the idea of standing next to an attractive female. Here's a friendly hint - forget the "DJ Bible". It's composed by a bunch of Monday morning quarterbacks who have the same phobia you do.

You people would rather analyze the looks/personality debate all night than trying to go outside in the real world and ask a girl out (which I guarantee rarely happens on the site). Someone's plane who's about to slam into the earth isn't as scared most of you guys.

Stop writing down your approaches. Stop reading the Bible. It's just increasing your anxiety. Take a big league hitter who's struggling at the plate. What's happening? He's thinking too much, he's not having fun. Remember that.

I have to go feed my bats. Ah-ah-ah...

 

[Raikojo17]

good post. i agree

 

[typical]

The frequent posters are losers but the few that come here once in a while are not losers, there are a few naturals here who just want to learn how and why they get women, or to get better at it. Yes I agree that most of the garbage here is pointless to read but some of it is very interesting.

Don't judge the whole community as war-craft freaks, who cant get girls, some here like myself just want to get more girls then we can currently get. I used to go through 3 or 4 girls a year, now I go through that many in the same amount of weeks. So don't be such a harsh critic.

And I also agree with the over analyzing bullsh!t, so your right about that.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Count Choc is blunt but he has a point . . .

 

[FurryFriend]

It's going down Titanic style.

I've never seen so much over-analyzing in one forum. Approach journals, 50 hellos, etc. Give me a break, that's weak. The real problem in here is simple - most of the people in here are LOSERS. It's the honest truth.

As a newbie to this forum, I agree with most of what you say. The Bible gives interesting advice. But to say The Bible is an end-all to all your problems is just stupid. "Read the Bible" or "the Bible has everything you need". FREAKING LAME. Life does not have a manual.

I would bet that those who give the most impassioned advice about being "an alpha" are probably the most chickensh-t. Sorry, I can't help but roll my eyes when anyone here professes to be an expert.

Folks on this forum should share what has worked for them and what hasn't. Leave the obnoxious grandstanding and self-promotion somewhere else.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Maybe if most of you weren't shut-ins, you'd have better success. Take a normal guy for example. He sees a hot girl in the checkout lane and thinks "Damn I'm going in her line." Take the guy from this site and what happens? Nothing. The knees start to buckle instantly. He's so used to the comforts of World of Warcraft he can't fathom the idea of standing next to an attractive female..

Haha, you tried to prove a point, but by your attempt you have heightened the opposite of which you set out to prove!! The men come here because they have that hesitation of approaching the female, for whatever reason, and they come here to seek counsel to overcome this barrier!!! Thus - this site is fulfilling it's purpose by those so-called DJs willing to encourage and enlighten others (those who are lacking) in those areas where they need guidance.

 

[The Count]

Let me elaborate my stance a little. I don't think everyone in here is a loser. I think the majority just want some honest advice on how to turn their situation around.

The reason I'm not a fan of the DJ Bible is because it's counterproductive. If something goes wrong, people think there's a scientific reason for it, and they turn to the Bible for a delusional solution. See what happens? It encourages people to think too much. Just like "Last Man Standing". He's more interested in over-analyzing my post than catching the drift. The brainwashing in here is quite evident.

 

[Obsidian]

I'm not a loser; I'm a recovering loser. Big difference.

And I think the DJ concepts are very helpful for enlightening those who don't already grasp them naturally.

This forum, on the other hand, isn't really the end-all and be-all of this site. It's mainly just something I do when I should instead be doing homework (like now). The forum contains a lot of junk, but the articles are very useful.

 

[Last Man Standing]

See what happens? It encourages people to think too much. Just like "Last Man Standing". He's more interested in over-analyzing my post than catching the drift. The brainwashing in here is quite evident.

I caught your "drift" with a catcher's mitt!! People come here for counsel and people give it to them! Simple!!

 

[~attrACTION~]

I think the funny part about this thread, and similar ones, is that a guy who just registered is so frustrated with how this forum is doing. Can someone say sketchy?

If you just registered on 3-26-07. That's TODAY. How do you know the forum is going down hill or not, and why would you care so much? Well, whoever you were before you got banned, welcome back. You sound frustrated. What's actually worse is the people who make threads like these are the people who need this forum the most.

Here's hint: Stop making threads like these, and actually read some of the great threads and tips. You might learn something.

 

[The Count]

Again, the over-analyzing rears it's ugly head.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Again, the over-analyzing rears it's ugly head.

Let me Count The ways...people seek help in an area and seek others for assistance! Simple!

 

[Jon55]

Let me elaborate my stance a little. I don't think everyone in here is a loser. I think the majority just want some honest advice on how to turn their situation around.

The reason I'm not a fan of the DJ Bible is because it's counterproductive. If something goes wrong, people think there's a scientific reason for it, and they turn to the Bible for a delusional solution. See what happens? It encourages people to think too much. Just like "Last Man Standing". He's more interested in over-analyzing my post than catching the drift. The brainwashing in here is quite evident.

I couldn't agree more. There are so many potential factors as to why something didn't/doesn't/won't work with a girl it's ridiculous. I used to read seduction crap almost religiously, and I realized one day "Im thinking about this waaay too much." This was also the point when I realized I wasn't having fun anymore.

The forums/seduction books have taught me very little, if nothing on how to seduce a woman that I didn't already know (I just never thought about it before - I just did it/it just happened - life was great!). However, they have told me how to be a Man about life, and that is by far more valuable than any pick up line.

 

[sexxyback]

There is some stuff to be learned from seduction literature and forums - especially for someone who is totally clueless about this type of stuff.

But it becomes counterproductive to focus too much on forums such as these, or to read too much seduction literature. After a while you begin to see all too clearly all of the grandstanding and hot air is coming from people who never go out in the field, and you begin to realize that so much seduction literature is the same thing repeated over and over by people looking to separate you from your money.

 

[azanon]

This guy speaks as if he has a strong understanding of the average poster here, yet this is his first post(s). Probably just the same troll reincarnated for the 8th time.

 

[Potbelly]

i've never heard of warcraft, sounds like a military operation

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Every time someone makes a good counter-argument: "you're overanalyzing".
:crackup:

Seriously, you're either:

1) A troll
2) A coward making up a new alias
3) Both

Either way, you have ZERO credibility. Comparing the entire forum to a bunch of geeks addicted to WOW is ignorant at best. There are as much losers here as there are anywhere else.

This forum serves as an avenue of self-improvement for many. It is not just about women in many cases. It is about shaking social anxiety and become a more focused and confident person. People post their journals as motivation for others, to get morale support, etc. I don't see why you're so against that.

 

[TheHoff]

This is the best and most true post iv possibly ever read on this forum. Yes, the message being voiced out is correct, but do you really think a DJ analsyses as much as you guys.....

 

[organizedconfusion]

I think the funny part about this thread, and similar ones, is that a guy who just registered is so frustrated with how this forum is doing. Can someone say sketchy?

If you just registered on 3-26-07. That's TODAY. How do you know the forum is going down hill or not, and why would you care so much? Well, whoever you were before you got banned, welcome back. You sound frustrated. What's actually worse is the people who make threads like these are the people who need this forum the most.

Here's hint: Stop making threads like these, and actually read some of the great threads and tips. You might learn something.

it's probaly some guy that's been on here for years and instead of using his old screen name he decided to make up another and project his own frustrations and insecurities to everyone else as a lack of knowing how to just deal with them.

 

[ducaro]

good one LMS. you stole my words