"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This ever happen to anyone?

shortstop22

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Met this HB 9 at a party, she had been drinking but she wasn't what I call trashed off her ass, she told me she had seen me around campus before etc etc. etc..

Anyway she bumped into me @ the party so I turned around and said "Look I know I'm hot, so if you want my attention you can just say hi, or grab my ass whatever floats your boat." She then said "hey" and grabbed my ass. I talked to her for a little while and told her we should hang out, she said "No problem, I'd love to. I'm just busy tomorrow, so call me in a couple of days." I got the # and she kissed me, then I left.

Fast forward to four days, I call her she has no idea who the hell I am. She asked what my name was so she could look me up on facebook, she said she remembered me from the party, but didnt remember giving out her #. Anyway I told her I was going to offer her for coffee, but now that she didn't remember it was pointless.

I know for a fact she wasn't THAT drunk, and I feel like she's just trying to play games with my head. Could she have been that drunk? Possibly, but doubtful.

This happen to any of you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tomatoes

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Ive seen people look sober then 20 seconds later chuck up and pass out because they were so drunk. She may be telling the truth. Maybe not. Meet up with her and decide for yourself
 

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girls don't like to mix "slut" behavior with their normal lives. If you meet girls at clubs, wild parties, (college) then they try and distance themselvees from you after, more times than not. They're scared that that "slut" behavior will transfer to their social (family, friends) network.

Thats my two cents.

You meet a girl at a party, makeout with her, then she never responds again to you.

Solution: Don't escalate to much during the party, just cuddle, hold hands etc, kiss on cheek, then say goodbye, lets meet up, on TUESDAY for a cup of coffee or something.

Thats the key. I think..
 

TheInfamousCBear

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You should of got at her that night, she could take the anti slut defense down by saying she was drunk...Thats how you gotta do parties and clubs and whatnot, you gotta hit that same night...
 

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Originally posted by shortstop22
I got the # and she kissed me, then I left.

Fast forward to four days, I call her she has no idea who the hell I am.
My reply would have been, thats Ok I don't want to get to know someone who kisses anyone at a party without remembering. I'm looking for a women who has a little more self-respect. Bye.

If that doesn't get her eating out of your hand after that, I don't know what will.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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