"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This ever happen to anyone?

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Met this HB 9 at a party, she had been drinking but she wasn't what I call trashed off her ass, she told me she had seen me around campus before etc etc. etc..

Anyway she bumped into me @ the party so I turned around and said "Look I know I'm hot, so if you want my attention you can just say hi, or grab my ass whatever floats your boat." She then said "hey" and grabbed my ass. I talked to her for a little while and told her we should hang out, she said "No problem, I'd love to. I'm just busy tomorrow, so call me in a couple of days." I got the # and she kissed me, then I left.

Fast forward to four days, I call her she has no idea who the hell I am. She asked what my name was so she could look me up on facebook, she said she remembered me from the party, but didnt remember giving out her #. Anyway I told her I was going to offer her for coffee, but now that she didn't remember it was pointless.

I know for a fact she wasn't THAT drunk, and I feel like she's just trying to play games with my head. Could she have been that drunk? Possibly, but doubtful.

This happen to any of you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ive seen people look sober then 20 seconds later chuck up and pass out because they were so drunk. She may be telling the truth. Maybe not. Meet up with her and decide for yourself
 
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girls don't like to mix "slut" behavior with their normal lives. If you meet girls at clubs, wild parties, (college) then they try and distance themselvees from you after, more times than not. They're scared that that "slut" behavior will transfer to their social (family, friends) network.

Thats my two cents.

You meet a girl at a party, makeout with her, then she never responds again to you.

Solution: Don't escalate to much during the party, just cuddle, hold hands etc, kiss on cheek, then say goodbye, lets meet up, on TUESDAY for a cup of coffee or something.

Thats the key. I think..
 
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You should of got at her that night, she could take the anti slut defense down by saying she was drunk...Thats how you gotta do parties and clubs and whatnot, you gotta hit that same night...
 
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Originally posted by shortstop22
I got the # and she kissed me, then I left.

Fast forward to four days, I call her she has no idea who the hell I am.
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My reply would have been, thats Ok I don't want to get to know someone who kisses anyone at a party without remembering. I'm looking for a women who has a little more self-respect. Bye.

If that doesn't get her eating out of your hand after that, I don't know what will.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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