"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this dumb ***** bit me

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I was at the bar, talking with some of my friends, this chick I barely know came over and wanted a hug. I obliged.

Later in the night, she said she was leaving, came in for another hug. Then she bit me on the chest. I don't think I've ever been so enraged in my life. This is second time in the last month that some dumb broad has bitten me on the chest unexpected. I kinda flipped out on her, saying as many nastly things as I could. Then she's all "Well if that's how you are, we're not friends anymore.". Good!

I don't mind being bitten, but it has to be with my permission. I don't really care, but WTF?!?!

Am I wrong for throwing a fit?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i guess it depends on how hard and in what mannor. If it was in a playful way I think it would be a good sign. Maybe say something like 'oh im sorry, did I say you could bite me?"

But if she left teeth marks thats not cool


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I think she meant it playfully, but there are definately marks.

The girl is nothing to get worked up over. I couldn't care less about ever hooking up with her.

It was hilarious watching her tell me that she doesn't have a boyfriend earlier in the night.
 

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Why the hell is some strage girl biting you? Quite literally a b1tch. That's strange and you were right not to tollerate it.
 

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Haha! I've had girls play bite me too, sometimes a bit too hard, but I've never flipped out over it.

If the girl who does it is unattractive to me, I'll just tell her "Look sweetie, I know you are attracted to me, but I don't know you well enough to have you bite me like that" Most girls get the message, if they don't I'll add "Look, how about you get 3 of your hottest friends over here for a chat, maybe I'll let them bite me" THAT always gets the message across :D

I don't know if it is a cultural thing but I don't really think it is acceptable behaviour for a guy to flip out and abuse a girl. I think it is far more mature and a DHV if you are cool about it and just take it in your stride and maturely tell them that what they did was wrong.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've got scars from it!!!

You'd definitely know if there was something up.

I wish pook would have taught you guys about patience...

oh wait he did!!
 

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Meh.

I apologized to her. I was firm about it though.

Me: "I shouldn't have exploded on you like I did. I overreated, but you can't just go around biting people like that."

Her: "It was just a lovebite."

Hmm....
 

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Tell her you don't like lovebites, unless your making love. Period. Tell her straight up you don't want to be bit in public again.

Pretty funny how you blew up though:p I don't know how to blow up like that anymore, I get weeeeird when I do. People get really scared, like FREAK, everybody stands back, this guys going to kill somebody pissed:p

"It was a lovebite"

I bet she had the whole frown, puppy dog eyse going on too. So cute, you could have made her YOUR b!tch right there.
 

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Originally posted by monster squad
Meh.

I apologized to her. I was firm about it though.

Me: "I shouldn't have exploded on you like I did. I overreated, but you can't just go around biting people like that."

Her: "It was just a lovebite."

Hmm....

HAHAHAHAHA....What's not so funny? If you did the same thing to her, you'd be arrested.

Don't apologize to someone who assaulted you....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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