"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this dude was too slow

Raikojo17

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ok this how it went down, this one girl goes to my church, an i got her number and we kinda went out once, and i went ok. since then i jus stopped talkin to her for some reason, maybe i was scared, and a *****. i wanna know, i still like her alil bit and still have her number. is it cool to try and hookp with her again or should i just forget her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djweses89

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i had same thing happen wit me back in the spring if ya want her back dont wait too long then she get a b/f and **** and make sure she isnt pissed ether
 

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All three of you can't type. -_-

Time changes things, the only way you can find out is to try hooking up with her again (Kev's got a idea there).
 

djweses89

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haha damn that is pretty bad typing worse than my normal might i say haha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you've hung out once and haven't hung out since it might not be a fantastic idea to go out on a date and try to hook up with her right away. You might want to talk to her online a bit and see what's up or have a brief hangout somewhere just to catch up. Then on the next "date" or whatever it is you can try to progress further.
 
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