"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

this dude was too slow

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
ok this how it went down, this one girl goes to my church, an i got her number and we kinda went out once, and i went ok. since then i jus stopped talkin to her for some reason, maybe i was scared, and a *****. i wanna know, i still like her alil bit and still have her number. is it cool to try and hookp with her again or should i just forget her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

djweses89

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
166
Reaction score
0
i had same thing happen wit me back in the spring if ya want her back dont wait too long then she get a b/f and **** and make sure she isnt pissed ether
 

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
All three of you can't type. -_-

Time changes things, the only way you can find out is to try hooking up with her again (Kev's got a idea there).
 

djweses89

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
166
Reaction score
0
haha damn that is pretty bad typing worse than my normal might i say haha.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

gyrahf

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2006
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
If you've hung out once and haven't hung out since it might not be a fantastic idea to go out on a date and try to hook up with her right away. You might want to talk to her online a bit and see what's up or have a brief hangout somewhere just to catch up. Then on the next "date" or whatever it is you can try to progress further.
 
Top