"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this dude was too slow

Raikojo17

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ok this how it went down, this one girl goes to my church, an i got her number and we kinda went out once, and i went ok. since then i jus stopped talkin to her for some reason, maybe i was scared, and a *****. i wanna know, i still like her alil bit and still have her number. is it cool to try and hookp with her again or should i just forget her?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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djweses89

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i had same thing happen wit me back in the spring if ya want her back dont wait too long then she get a b/f and **** and make sure she isnt pissed ether
 

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All three of you can't type. -_-

Time changes things, the only way you can find out is to try hooking up with her again (Kev's got a idea there).
 

djweses89

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haha damn that is pretty bad typing worse than my normal might i say haha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you've hung out once and haven't hung out since it might not be a fantastic idea to go out on a date and try to hook up with her right away. You might want to talk to her online a bit and see what's up or have a brief hangout somewhere just to catch up. Then on the next "date" or whatever it is you can try to progress further.
 
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