"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This dude looks like a handsome Chad but never been in a relationship.

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Im like what the freak man? Theres several factors that can explain this; bad social skills, suffer social anxiety, mental disorders, hardcore introvert, lack of connections, just a few things I can think of, because I can totally relate to this guy. He made a post in one of my facebook support groups and unfortunately his situation is pretty damn common nowadays.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi Travels,
Oh don't worry about him,a Man with such a kind intelligent face will soon find a partner,IF HE WANTS,and not everyone does!
 

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Hey bro how you doing in your part of The Philippines? Were you guys affected by the typoon? We were without electricity for several days
Our family has been living in an elevated place where typhoons are somehow weakened, for more than a decade now. Had really brief brownouts, but none of the flooding. Before that, we used to get flooded all the time. Hope you're all safe out there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I have known one very good looking guy and tbh he looked almost the same as the guy you posted, only more masculine looking with visible muscle mass. But he behaved like the biggest beta i haver ever seen in my life. His behavior just didnt fit to his looks. Handsome guys get targetet a lot, where you can have one extreme of insecure handsome guys and secure handsome guys. Some of them probably got strongly conditioned to behave undesirable due to their advantage in looks.

lol awesome bro. Ongbak? are you a fan of muay thai, Tony Ja and mma?
 

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He's actually not that handsome, but has amazing eyes (if they're even real).

There was one uber-Chad 10K years ago that had a mutation giving him blue eyes, and every person ever alive that had blue eyes got it from him:


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I magnetic blue eyes. I say this not to boast I am just saying they draw people in it’s just a thing. I think brown eyes are nice. Looking at the color of people’s eyes is a good skill anyway, when talking to women. You couldn’t be more dialed in when doing that and as such, body language being 75% or more of the communication, you’re off to a great start. Don’t do it too hard or long for men, unless you are in the mood to start a fight.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im like what the freak man? Theres several factors that can explain this; bad social skills, suffer social anxiety, mental disorders, hardcore introvert, lack of connections, just a few things I can think of, because I can totally relate to this guy. He made a post in one of my facebook support groups and unfortunately his situation is pretty damn common nowadays.
My gaydar is giving me pings - not sure why.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im like what the freak man? Theres several factors that can explain this; bad social skills, suffer social anxiety, mental disorders, hardcore introvert, lack of connections...
Also possible: Dude's so eager to

-Drag each of his acquisitions into the basement, once the tranqs he's slipped into their wine plunge these gals into a deep slumber

-Hang them up by their ankles from the rafters, slice every last inch of flesh + Scalp and tits from their bodies

-Sew all of that into suits, so that he can spend his evenings stalking through the woods wearing them, frequently howling at the moon during the course these same adventures



He's never gotten round to actually enjoying the company of the women he's pursued
 

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yeah, dude isn't a chad at all. I'd fee Too g@y to post pics of what a chad actually looks like, but he's not there
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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