"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok, so I went out with this chick on Saturday and some sushi fell to the ground.

Her: is it ok to eat it?

me: I was thinking wtf is she serious? I told her no don't eat that. I don't want you to go to the hospital!

Her: Well, I've eaten stuff off the ground on dares before.

Me: I told her just no. It's dangerous with all the bacteria and ****.

Now guys, I'm still learning DJ, but how the F was I supposed to respond to this? I just took control and told her no. But in hindsight, perhaps I should have said go ahead and eat it and let's see what happens. Or is there something more smooth or something I could have done?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should have dared her to eat it then. Or said fine...go ahead. But I'm not kissing you later. Make a joke of it.
 
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A true alpha would have pounced on the sushi as soon as it hit the ground and eaten it himself. This reckless, daredevil behavior would have shown you are not afraid of the bacteria. It would have also established you at the top of the food chain and shown off your lack of good "nice guy" table manners. That alone should have made her panties wet right there.

You missed a real opportunity here, OP. It's welcome to the.friendzone for you, I'm afraid. Better luck next time. Hit the gym. Oh, and spin more plates.

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zekko said:
A true alpha would have pounced on the sushi as soon as it hit the ground and eaten it himself. This reckless, daredevil behavior would have shown you are not afraid of the bacteria. It would have also established you at the top of the food chain and shown off your lack of good "nice guy" table manners. That alone should have made her panties wet right there.

You missed a real opportunity here, OP. It's welcome to the.friendzone for you, I'm afraid. Better luck next time. Hit the gym. Oh, and spin more plates.

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LOL! Mental masturbation right there.
 
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GS750 said:
Should have dared her to eat it then. Or said fine...go ahead. But I'm not kissing you later. Make a joke of it.
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would have done this
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko said:
A true alpha would have pounced on the sushi as soon as it hit the ground and eaten it himself. This reckless, daredevil behavior would have shown you are not afraid of the bacteria. It would have also established you at the top of the food chain and shown off your lack of good "nice guy" table manners. That alone should have made her panties wet right there.

You missed a real opportunity here, OP. It's welcome to the.friendzone for you, I'm afraid. Better luck next time. Hit the gym. Oh, and spin more plates.

;)
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Don't see anything wrong with what you did. You took charge of the situation and she complied.

You can analyze other things, but this one really is OK.
 
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