"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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http://giftedkids.about.com/od/glossary/g/introvert.htm

I just turned 23 years old and I just feel like I am missing out on life. I had a 2 year relationship end about 9 months ago. I am moving somewhere new likely Oregon or Idaho in 2 months and it is scary for me.

Anyways I HATE large social gatherings. I have a very low self-esteem and no confidence. Whenever something positive happens socially I consider it a "fluke" or they were just being "nice". If I encounter a bad reaction from me greeting someone it can ruin my night. I look around at a lot of people in envy because they all seem to be having so much fun and they have so many friends and got girls talking to them, etc.

I have been on this site for a long time but I just can't seem to improve very much.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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adopt a more self-centered, sociopathic worldview.

invest your time in hobbies.
 
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what the hell do you want us to tell you, you've been here since 2002. its up to you son, nobodys words here are going to effect you if you havent changed for jacksh1t in the last 7 years.
 
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pay me $1K and I'll personally call you and tell you to stop feeling sorry for yourself and to just do it.
 
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the more you start caring about yourself and your interests, the less you will care of what others think of you or their interests.

it sounds like he's unnecessarily altruistic and self-conscious. fvck other people, who cares if you think they think that you did something awkward; serve your own needs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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