Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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http://giftedkids.about.com/od/glossary/g/introvert.htm

I just turned 23 years old and I just feel like I am missing out on life. I had a 2 year relationship end about 9 months ago. I am moving somewhere new likely Oregon or Idaho in 2 months and it is scary for me.

Anyways I HATE large social gatherings. I have a very low self-esteem and no confidence. Whenever something positive happens socially I consider it a "fluke" or they were just being "nice". If I encounter a bad reaction from me greeting someone it can ruin my night. I look around at a lot of people in envy because they all seem to be having so much fun and they have so many friends and got girls talking to them, etc.

I have been on this site for a long time but I just can't seem to improve very much.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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adopt a more self-centered, sociopathic worldview.

invest your time in hobbies.
 
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what the hell do you want us to tell you, you've been here since 2002. its up to you son, nobodys words here are going to effect you if you havent changed for jacksh1t in the last 7 years.
 
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pay me $1K and I'll personally call you and tell you to stop feeling sorry for yourself and to just do it.
 
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the more you start caring about yourself and your interests, the less you will care of what others think of you or their interests.

it sounds like he's unnecessarily altruistic and self-conscious. fvck other people, who cares if you think they think that you did something awkward; serve your own needs.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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