Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This decent looking blonde last night

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Her boyfriend is unemployed, barely trying to find work, living at home with parents, not trying to do anything with his life. He treats her like garbage - which is what all her friends told me. They've been together for 5 years. Looks wise, he's a tall but very average looking white guy.


Considering that any decent looking chick nowadays can get an extremely high quality male very easily, why would somebody like that settle for total garbage?


I'm just curious, I'm not asking this for myself. She is not my type (too pale, not in shape, personality type is not my type)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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he ****s her real good, she has abandonment issues and is at a level of relative comfort/homeostasis with this guy, the key here though is that since shes talking trash behind his back she'd be very susceptible to change bf's, so long as someone comes along that can both **** her just as good, and makes at least 50 cents more per hours xD i kid but honestly how hard would it be to out-man someone that lives with their parents and has no self respect/doesnt respect his woman. snipe that p*ssy boi
 
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he ****s her real good, she has abandonment issues and is at a level of relative comfort/homeostasis with this guy, the key here though is that since shes talking trash behind his back she'd be very susceptible to change bf's, so long as someone comes along that can both **** her just as good, and makes at least 50 cents more per hours xD i kid but honestly how hard would it be to out-man someone that lives with their parents and has no self respect/doesnt respect his woman. snipe that ***** boi
she's not my type, I am just curious


you're probably right
 
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its entirely true that women only care about how you are making feel in that moment. i truly believe that any woman would leave their man if they though they could do better. most women are seriously insecure though. and unless pedestalized won't just enlighten themselves if you catch my drift
 

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Were you somebody's wingman?
You're not a very good wingman if you're that judgemental.

I'm still confused why you are asking this question for someone else.
That entire story doesn't make sense.
You saw a girl with a sh!tty boyfriend? So what?
You gonna walk in there and white knight them?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dave seems to think that external appearance equals strong inner game. They are only two variables of many that make one a successful human.

Dave is desperate to externalize his problems any way he can.

That comes across as finding fault with any women that he can.
 

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Because he's not a ****ty boyfriend,
Women will call a man a bad boyfriend when he isn't the type of guy she can run all over lol

That, or he is a ****ty bf but he knows how to do enough (sweet talking) to keep her around and she dump enough to fall for it.

Or maybe she would rather have him then a pvssy who she can push around. Who knows
 

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Some women like that control aspect, and knowing where a guy is, at all times. They are too insecure to have a quality man
 

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Considering that any decent looking chick nowadays can get an extremely high quality male very easily, why would somebody like that settle for total garbage?
She's a submissive type of girl that likes that type of guy. There are weird types of people out there and crazies, big society right?
 

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Her boyfriend is unemployed, barely trying to find work, living at home with parents, not trying to do anything with his life. He treats her like garbage - which is what all her friends told me. They've been together for 5 years. Looks wise, he's a tall but very average looking white guy.


Considering that any decent looking chick nowadays can get an extremely high quality male very easily, why would somebody like that settle for total garbage?


I'm just curious, I'm not asking this for myself. She is not my type (too pale, not in shape, personality type is not my type)
Isn't that the type of situation where a beta male swoops in to give her emotional support while her alpha boyfriend ****s her til he decides to go play video games or watch football instead? But the beta male only ever gets to be a volunteer therapist while the other guy has all the fun.

You'd need to know what her exes are like to get a clearer picture
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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He fvcks her real good and probably has some game. I used to be that guy. She also probably likes to "take care of" her man, cooking, laundry.

But I'm a grown a$$ man, so I didn't live with my parents.
 
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