"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This decent looking blonde last night

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Her boyfriend is unemployed, barely trying to find work, living at home with parents, not trying to do anything with his life. He treats her like garbage - which is what all her friends told me. They've been together for 5 years. Looks wise, he's a tall but very average looking white guy.


Considering that any decent looking chick nowadays can get an extremely high quality male very easily, why would somebody like that settle for total garbage?


I'm just curious, I'm not asking this for myself. She is not my type (too pale, not in shape, personality type is not my type)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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he ****s her real good, she has abandonment issues and is at a level of relative comfort/homeostasis with this guy, the key here though is that since shes talking trash behind his back she'd be very susceptible to change bf's, so long as someone comes along that can both **** her just as good, and makes at least 50 cents more per hours xD i kid but honestly how hard would it be to out-man someone that lives with their parents and has no self respect/doesnt respect his woman. snipe that p*ssy boi
 
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he ****s her real good, she has abandonment issues and is at a level of relative comfort/homeostasis with this guy, the key here though is that since shes talking trash behind his back she'd be very susceptible to change bf's, so long as someone comes along that can both **** her just as good, and makes at least 50 cents more per hours xD i kid but honestly how hard would it be to out-man someone that lives with their parents and has no self respect/doesnt respect his woman. snipe that ***** boi
she's not my type, I am just curious


you're probably right
 
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its entirely true that women only care about how you are making feel in that moment. i truly believe that any woman would leave their man if they though they could do better. most women are seriously insecure though. and unless pedestalized won't just enlighten themselves if you catch my drift
 

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Were you somebody's wingman?
You're not a very good wingman if you're that judgemental.

I'm still confused why you are asking this question for someone else.
That entire story doesn't make sense.
You saw a girl with a sh!tty boyfriend? So what?
You gonna walk in there and white knight them?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dave seems to think that external appearance equals strong inner game. They are only two variables of many that make one a successful human.

Dave is desperate to externalize his problems any way he can.

That comes across as finding fault with any women that he can.
 

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Because he's not a ****ty boyfriend,
Women will call a man a bad boyfriend when he isn't the type of guy she can run all over lol

That, or he is a ****ty bf but he knows how to do enough (sweet talking) to keep her around and she dump enough to fall for it.

Or maybe she would rather have him then a pvssy who she can push around. Who knows
 

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Some women like that control aspect, and knowing where a guy is, at all times. They are too insecure to have a quality man
 

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Considering that any decent looking chick nowadays can get an extremely high quality male very easily, why would somebody like that settle for total garbage?
She's a submissive type of girl that likes that type of guy. There are weird types of people out there and crazies, big society right?
 

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Her boyfriend is unemployed, barely trying to find work, living at home with parents, not trying to do anything with his life. He treats her like garbage - which is what all her friends told me. They've been together for 5 years. Looks wise, he's a tall but very average looking white guy.


Considering that any decent looking chick nowadays can get an extremely high quality male very easily, why would somebody like that settle for total garbage?


I'm just curious, I'm not asking this for myself. She is not my type (too pale, not in shape, personality type is not my type)
Isn't that the type of situation where a beta male swoops in to give her emotional support while her alpha boyfriend ****s her til he decides to go play video games or watch football instead? But the beta male only ever gets to be a volunteer therapist while the other guy has all the fun.

You'd need to know what her exes are like to get a clearer picture
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He fvcks her real good and probably has some game. I used to be that guy. She also probably likes to "take care of" her man, cooking, laundry.

But I'm a grown a$$ man, so I didn't live with my parents.
 
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