"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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This crap makes me just want to vomit ...

strong like bull

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Originally posted by Hoppy
The message of that poem is to not be afriad to make your feelings known, the same message you all preach here. I don't understand why it's making you sick. I thought it was well written.


i suppose everyone gets a different message. for me, it shows what NOT to be. DONT be afraid to act on your instincts. otherwise, you will live a life of regret and sorrow. like the gentleman in the story.

i dont think a WOMAN should be your ultimate life goal, but the message of the story carries through. he knew what he wanted but didnt have the brass to reach out for it. life being the staircase of uncertain steps, falling is a risk which must be taken to get to the top. fear to risk, youll be stuck at the bottom forever.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't know why this makes you sick? In fact, if anything it makes me SAD. He's just one example of the many men in North America that lead their lives wondering "what if" .

Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end your just screwing yourself.
 

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Come on rgerre, this can't make you sick cuz u always passing up opportunities. Unless you make yourself sick, then that would be acceptable
 
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