"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This crap makes me just want to vomit ...

strong like bull

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Originally posted by Hoppy
The message of that poem is to not be afriad to make your feelings known, the same message you all preach here. I don't understand why it's making you sick. I thought it was well written.


i suppose everyone gets a different message. for me, it shows what NOT to be. DONT be afraid to act on your instincts. otherwise, you will live a life of regret and sorrow. like the gentleman in the story.

i dont think a WOMAN should be your ultimate life goal, but the message of the story carries through. he knew what he wanted but didnt have the brass to reach out for it. life being the staircase of uncertain steps, falling is a risk which must be taken to get to the top. fear to risk, youll be stuck at the bottom forever.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't know why this makes you sick? In fact, if anything it makes me SAD. He's just one example of the many men in North America that lead their lives wondering "what if" .

Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end your just screwing yourself.
 

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Come on rgerre, this can't make you sick cuz u always passing up opportunities. Unless you make yourself sick, then that would be acceptable
 
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