Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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heres the deal, i've always had success at getting with women, (kiss closing/number closing - but probably at around the HB 6 average, i'd like to raise that to HB 8) for the last 5 months i've been going out with a girl, its coming to an end, but will probably still last another couple of months, long story, but not so important to what i want to know.

in the beginning of my kiss closing days, i was ugly with bad dress sense, pale, freckled skin, bad hair style, bad teeth, too fat, acne. but i could still work it and pick up sometimes.

then i was in the gym for hovever long, improved the body not to the point it was a good body, but to the point that it wasn't a problem. hair style improved, dress sense was improving, and game was improving. i was picking up regularly say 1 girl every couple of weeks, (but i still couldn't do much with a number after i'd kissed and number closed.)

then i had the good enough body, good hair, good dress sense, severly reduced acne. still got the pale,freckled skin, bad teeth. but got good enough to pick up most weekends with kiss/number closes, sometimes would land 3 girls in a night etc. then got with my girlfriend HB 7. since then i've definently still been improving.

got my dress sense nailed, hair nailed, game i think is very close to knowing what to do in most situations, definently got the confidence to close on girls and to not fear rejection. i think i'm a good 7/10 possibly an 8 in some girls eyes..

but i'm going to go ahead and get braces to fix my teeth. i understand this could turn some girls off. but right now i have a girlfriend, and i hope it'll work out with her for a while yet. (although i don't think it will, i think she's too immature for me) i think i that i can have braces and still have the confidence to close girls. but i'd love to hear from someone who has/had braces tell of there experiences, does it make any difference? if i've got a background and confidence and know what i'm doing, it shouldn't make any difference should it? i'm going to do it regaurdless. i just don't want to lose the confidence i have built. but i do want to be able to smile at girls knowing that they won't be turned off. which is something i don't have right now (making eye contact->smile->conversation hard).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Having good teeth is always good but isn't that much of a big deal unless your teeth is horribly discolored and mangled.
 

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ok i'll try explain my teeth..
top row..
molars are fine..
then u've got ur 6 front teeth, working out to in, you have ur fangs, then your chompers, then ur front teeth (no they aren't the scientific names)
on the left side my teeth are fine, but on the right side, they are crowded, the right front tooth is fine, but the right chomper grew in behind the fang. so its pushed back and the fang is pushed forward (they aren't all poking backwards forwards, there is just kinda like a big gap. u can't notice the chomper much cause its far back..
when eating things like peanut butter or a snickers bar, peanuts always go and get stuck in there (easily dislodged) just trying to give u an idea on the size of the gap..
so while its not hideos... its a smile that'd keep me from being on tv...

or thats how i see it.
 
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Originally posted by quest
ok i'll try explain my teeth..

on the left side my teeth are fine, but on the right side, they are crowded, the right front tooth is fine, but the right chomper grew in behind the fang. so its pushed back and the fang is pushed forward (they aren't all poking backwards forwards, there is just kinda like a big gap. u can't notice the chomper much cause its far back...
You are a hideous monster!!! :D

(PR_Lover turns his head and raises both arms around eyes to shield his vision from this disfigured monstrous sight)
 

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definently long term boost of confidence..
hoping i won't lose too much confidence in the meantime..
it's not all about the ladies..
its the fact that better looking people get more oppurtunities..
i have read numerous threads on this at this board. and as a result, i beleive the statement better looking people get more oppurtunities, so i feel that should help me in my career, although it is only minor and will cost quite a lot of money to do it. i still feel its worthwhile.
i don't have stunning looks, but i think with straight teeth, more or less every girl would be somewhat attracted to me, maybe i'm wrong, maybe they already are? i'm gunna do it..

i just hope it doesnt break what i've built, i don't think it will.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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