"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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heres the deal, i've always had success at getting with women, (kiss closing/number closing - but probably at around the HB 6 average, i'd like to raise that to HB 8) for the last 5 months i've been going out with a girl, its coming to an end, but will probably still last another couple of months, long story, but not so important to what i want to know.

in the beginning of my kiss closing days, i was ugly with bad dress sense, pale, freckled skin, bad hair style, bad teeth, too fat, acne. but i could still work it and pick up sometimes.

then i was in the gym for hovever long, improved the body not to the point it was a good body, but to the point that it wasn't a problem. hair style improved, dress sense was improving, and game was improving. i was picking up regularly say 1 girl every couple of weeks, (but i still couldn't do much with a number after i'd kissed and number closed.)

then i had the good enough body, good hair, good dress sense, severly reduced acne. still got the pale,freckled skin, bad teeth. but got good enough to pick up most weekends with kiss/number closes, sometimes would land 3 girls in a night etc. then got with my girlfriend HB 7. since then i've definently still been improving.

got my dress sense nailed, hair nailed, game i think is very close to knowing what to do in most situations, definently got the confidence to close on girls and to not fear rejection. i think i'm a good 7/10 possibly an 8 in some girls eyes..

but i'm going to go ahead and get braces to fix my teeth. i understand this could turn some girls off. but right now i have a girlfriend, and i hope it'll work out with her for a while yet. (although i don't think it will, i think she's too immature for me) i think i that i can have braces and still have the confidence to close girls. but i'd love to hear from someone who has/had braces tell of there experiences, does it make any difference? if i've got a background and confidence and know what i'm doing, it shouldn't make any difference should it? i'm going to do it regaurdless. i just don't want to lose the confidence i have built. but i do want to be able to smile at girls knowing that they won't be turned off. which is something i don't have right now (making eye contact->smile->conversation hard).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Having good teeth is always good but isn't that much of a big deal unless your teeth is horribly discolored and mangled.
 

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ok i'll try explain my teeth..
top row..
molars are fine..
then u've got ur 6 front teeth, working out to in, you have ur fangs, then your chompers, then ur front teeth (no they aren't the scientific names)
on the left side my teeth are fine, but on the right side, they are crowded, the right front tooth is fine, but the right chomper grew in behind the fang. so its pushed back and the fang is pushed forward (they aren't all poking backwards forwards, there is just kinda like a big gap. u can't notice the chomper much cause its far back..
when eating things like peanut butter or a snickers bar, peanuts always go and get stuck in there (easily dislodged) just trying to give u an idea on the size of the gap..
so while its not hideos... its a smile that'd keep me from being on tv...

or thats how i see it.
 
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Originally posted by quest
ok i'll try explain my teeth..

on the left side my teeth are fine, but on the right side, they are crowded, the right front tooth is fine, but the right chomper grew in behind the fang. so its pushed back and the fang is pushed forward (they aren't all poking backwards forwards, there is just kinda like a big gap. u can't notice the chomper much cause its far back...
You are a hideous monster!!! :D

(PR_Lover turns his head and raises both arms around eyes to shield his vision from this disfigured monstrous sight)
 

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definently long term boost of confidence..
hoping i won't lose too much confidence in the meantime..
it's not all about the ladies..
its the fact that better looking people get more oppurtunities..
i have read numerous threads on this at this board. and as a result, i beleive the statement better looking people get more oppurtunities, so i feel that should help me in my career, although it is only minor and will cost quite a lot of money to do it. i still feel its worthwhile.
i don't have stunning looks, but i think with straight teeth, more or less every girl would be somewhat attracted to me, maybe i'm wrong, maybe they already are? i'm gunna do it..

i just hope it doesnt break what i've built, i don't think it will.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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