"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ambience420.

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ok.. so this has been going on since.. late october? i've noticed this girl for a while now, and she's noticed me.. we've established this relationship based on eye contact. back then we'd have a good 3 sec worth of eye contact, but not really any expression on our faces, now the eye contact doesnt really last THAT long. i know some of her friends, and all that, but the thing is ive just moved to this new school and u know, dont really have my feet settled down quite yet. anyways, in late december, i msged the girl on myspace saying whats up, ive noticed u around school and what ever, and i never got a response back. her friend says she usually doesnt respond but what ever.. anyways, it seems now, trying to talk to her is like an impossible task, when even thinking of trying to do it, feels like having the MOST pressure on ur shoulders.. and even if i tried, id fear rejection, or she might think im a stalker cause i msged her on myspace.. haha, this is just a thing thats been goin on i thought id might bring up.. im not really SERIOUS about this girl.. just wondering what u guys think i should consider?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Once i sent this girl i knew but never talked to a few messages on myspace. A week ago i saw her at a little party thing and acted like she was my long lost homie. Just go talk to her and dont act like a chump and be all nervous, because then youll come across as being a stalker. What the fvck do you have to lose?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Ambience420.
how did she respond to u on myspace?
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She responded once out three times. But when i actually saw her and talked to her it was a whole different story. I got her number and im pretty sure i could have kissed her.
 
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