"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ambience420.

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ok.. so this has been going on since.. late october? i've noticed this girl for a while now, and she's noticed me.. we've established this relationship based on eye contact. back then we'd have a good 3 sec worth of eye contact, but not really any expression on our faces, now the eye contact doesnt really last THAT long. i know some of her friends, and all that, but the thing is ive just moved to this new school and u know, dont really have my feet settled down quite yet. anyways, in late december, i msged the girl on myspace saying whats up, ive noticed u around school and what ever, and i never got a response back. her friend says she usually doesnt respond but what ever.. anyways, it seems now, trying to talk to her is like an impossible task, when even thinking of trying to do it, feels like having the MOST pressure on ur shoulders.. and even if i tried, id fear rejection, or she might think im a stalker cause i msged her on myspace.. haha, this is just a thing thats been goin on i thought id might bring up.. im not really SERIOUS about this girl.. just wondering what u guys think i should consider?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oakraiderz2

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Once i sent this girl i knew but never talked to a few messages on myspace. A week ago i saw her at a little party thing and acted like she was my long lost homie. Just go talk to her and dont act like a chump and be all nervous, because then youll come across as being a stalker. What the fvck do you have to lose?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Ambience420.
how did she respond to u on myspace?
She responded once out three times. But when i actually saw her and talked to her it was a whole different story. I got her number and im pretty sure i could have kissed her.
 
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