"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This chick wants my address so she can send me a "Secret Valentine"

Infamous J

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I met this girl on myspace (yeah I know) that's an HB8 or so. We've been bantering back and forth for a few weeks now and I've been flicking her lots of sh*t, it's been fun.

In the last message she sent me she says she wants my address "if I'm brave enough to let her have it" so she can send me a "secret valentine".

What do you make of this and how would you respond? I don't mind letting her have it but I don't want to jump at her offer either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Maybe, it's really a FBI agent looking for online predators. So, when they get your adress they can storm inside your house and take you to jail. :crackup: You never know...
 

saber

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sounds suspicious...just give her the neighbors address and tell her to put your name on the package cause you got roomates nopr something...then the neighbors will bring it over lol
 
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