"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this chick mentioned food again after a week from her flakiness!

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about 2 weeks ago, i made a post about this girl who made an excuse when i went in for the close for a get together.

And thus today is the last day of class. She and her friend (guy) came into the lunchroom when i was there eating. After they got their food, they came and sat down next to me. It was all good and stuff, we had a good chat about stuff. Surprisingly along the convo, she mentioned she stil lwants her fvckin dim sum.

i point at her pizza and said ..."there, you're eating it!"
haha we both had a laugh.

chatted some and left upon finishing my lunch.

girls are completely ****ed in the brain...god damn ********...or some ****
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Say Butt?
 
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I'm sorry, but what?
 
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i c your point cause i remeber you other thread
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i fail to see the point of this thread because I don't remember your other post.
 
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it was about him wanting to take a chick to get some dim sum and she made a fuss about it and when he finally decided to do it she rejected him. something like that right?



the basic point
 
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Originally posted by Fenderules
it was about him wanting to take a chick to get some dim sum and she made a fuss about it and when he finally decided to do it she rejected him. something like that right?



the basic point
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yes something like that fender. she kept mentioning to me where her damn dimsum was, so i made her an offer to go get some and she made up some excuse. and thus is is where this post leads from...
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
yes something like that fender. she kept mentioning to me where her damn dimsum was, so i made her an offer to go get some and she made up some excuse. and thus is is where this post leads from...
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When she came and sat beside you while you were eating and asked that question, you should have just been blunt. "I made the offer a week ago, but you made up some excuse for not being able to come along." Put her on the spot like that.

This will

a) Shut her up pretty good with the stupid dim sum crap
b) Give you an opportunity to laugh as she clumsily runs through an explanation for her excuse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yah, that will also make him look like a jackass who cares WAY too much about what ONe chick did to him...
 
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