"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this chick mentioned food again after a week from her flakiness!

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about 2 weeks ago, i made a post about this girl who made an excuse when i went in for the close for a get together.

And thus today is the last day of class. She and her friend (guy) came into the lunchroom when i was there eating. After they got their food, they came and sat down next to me. It was all good and stuff, we had a good chat about stuff. Surprisingly along the convo, she mentioned she stil lwants her fvckin dim sum.

i point at her pizza and said ..."there, you're eating it!"
haha we both had a laugh.

chatted some and left upon finishing my lunch.

girls are completely ****ed in the brain...god damn ********...or some ****
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say Butt?
 
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I'm sorry, but what?
 
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i c your point cause i remeber you other thread
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i fail to see the point of this thread because I don't remember your other post.
 
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it was about him wanting to take a chick to get some dim sum and she made a fuss about it and when he finally decided to do it she rejected him. something like that right?



the basic point
 
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Originally posted by Fenderules
it was about him wanting to take a chick to get some dim sum and she made a fuss about it and when he finally decided to do it she rejected him. something like that right?



the basic point
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yes something like that fender. she kept mentioning to me where her damn dimsum was, so i made her an offer to go get some and she made up some excuse. and thus is is where this post leads from...
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
yes something like that fender. she kept mentioning to me where her damn dimsum was, so i made her an offer to go get some and she made up some excuse. and thus is is where this post leads from...
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When she came and sat beside you while you were eating and asked that question, you should have just been blunt. "I made the offer a week ago, but you made up some excuse for not being able to come along." Put her on the spot like that.

This will

a) Shut her up pretty good with the stupid dim sum crap
b) Give you an opportunity to laugh as she clumsily runs through an explanation for her excuse.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yah, that will also make him look like a jackass who cares WAY too much about what ONe chick did to him...
 
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