"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This Chick at my new school......

GobStopper__

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Well i just recently moved and started going to my new highschool. Well i met this hot girl at lunch, She has been giving very mixed signals. Like we had a nice little chat today and she said her back hurt so i gave her a back massage. (Kino Style). But sometimes she seem's to be intersted in me a lot and sometimes she doesnt seem to like me being around her. So the overall picture is pretty mixed up.

I just wanted to ask you guys if i should seduce this girl or not?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ4Real

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Originally posted by GobStopper__
Well i just recently moved and started going to my new highschool. Well i met this hot girl at lunch, She has been giving very mixed signals. Like we had a nice little chat today and she said her back hurt so i gave her a back rub. (Kino Style). But sometimes she seem's to be intersted in me a lot and sometimes she doesnt seem to like me being around her. So the overall picture is pretty mixed up.

I just wanted to ask you guys if i should persue this girl or not?
Your goal isn't to "pursue" this girl. You don't pursue women. Why? because she probably has tons of guys pursuing her. Instead of pursuing her, attract her. Do what you need to do to attract her. If you read the bible it should ball park you what you need to do.:cool:
 

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Your absolutely right i should seduce her. Sorry about the mix-up of words.
 

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No, not seduce her. First you have to attract her. After you get her all heated up for you. Then afterwards, you seduce her with more charm. Seduction and Attraction are synonyms. But to seduce something or one is the stronger level of attraction. When you just attract her, you get her to like you and think about you. But when you SEDUCE her you finish the job of attracting her.
 
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