"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This Chick at my new school......

GobStopper__

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Well i just recently moved and started going to my new highschool. Well i met this hot girl at lunch, She has been giving very mixed signals. Like we had a nice little chat today and she said her back hurt so i gave her a back massage. (Kino Style). But sometimes she seem's to be intersted in me a lot and sometimes she doesnt seem to like me being around her. So the overall picture is pretty mixed up.

I just wanted to ask you guys if i should seduce this girl or not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ4Real

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Originally posted by GobStopper__
Well i just recently moved and started going to my new highschool. Well i met this hot girl at lunch, She has been giving very mixed signals. Like we had a nice little chat today and she said her back hurt so i gave her a back rub. (Kino Style). But sometimes she seem's to be intersted in me a lot and sometimes she doesnt seem to like me being around her. So the overall picture is pretty mixed up.

I just wanted to ask you guys if i should persue this girl or not?
Your goal isn't to "pursue" this girl. You don't pursue women. Why? because she probably has tons of guys pursuing her. Instead of pursuing her, attract her. Do what you need to do to attract her. If you read the bible it should ball park you what you need to do.:cool:
 

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Your absolutely right i should seduce her. Sorry about the mix-up of words.
 

DJ4Real

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No, not seduce her. First you have to attract her. After you get her all heated up for you. Then afterwards, you seduce her with more charm. Seduction and Attraction are synonyms. But to seduce something or one is the stronger level of attraction. When you just attract her, you get her to like you and think about you. But when you SEDUCE her you finish the job of attracting her.
 
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