"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This Chick at my new school......

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Well i just recently moved and started going to my new highschool. Well i met this hot girl at lunch, She has been giving very mixed signals. Like we had a nice little chat today and she said her back hurt so i gave her a back massage. (Kino Style). But sometimes she seem's to be intersted in me a lot and sometimes she doesnt seem to like me being around her. So the overall picture is pretty mixed up.

I just wanted to ask you guys if i should seduce this girl or not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by GobStopper__
Well i just recently moved and started going to my new highschool. Well i met this hot girl at lunch, She has been giving very mixed signals. Like we had a nice little chat today and she said her back hurt so i gave her a back rub. (Kino Style). But sometimes she seem's to be intersted in me a lot and sometimes she doesnt seem to like me being around her. So the overall picture is pretty mixed up.

I just wanted to ask you guys if i should persue this girl or not?
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Your goal isn't to "pursue" this girl. You don't pursue women. Why? because she probably has tons of guys pursuing her. Instead of pursuing her, attract her. Do what you need to do to attract her. If you read the bible it should ball park you what you need to do.:cool:
 
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Your absolutely right i should seduce her. Sorry about the mix-up of words.
 
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No, not seduce her. First you have to attract her. After you get her all heated up for you. Then afterwards, you seduce her with more charm. Seduction and Attraction are synonyms. But to seduce something or one is the stronger level of attraction. When you just attract her, you get her to like you and think about you. But when you SEDUCE her you finish the job of attracting her.
 
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