"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheOnE111

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Ive known her for about 2 weeks now, i got her # on mon an we talked on wed night.

Thurs.- no call or interaction with her from me.
Fri.- i call but no answer.

Now today (sat). She was giving me alot of kino, alot of smiling, alot of eye fuking, playing with hair. Then i kinda implied that i liked a girl that worked in our store but never mentioned her name. Later that day one of the other girl workers asked if she liked anyone of the clerks. An she told me she got all red and said "im not gonna tell you".

My question is how can you really tell if they like you? cuz i mean her body lang. shows it but is that really 100% accurate? you think i should just come clean and straight up ask her how she feels? any help would be great.and if it matters im 20 an shes 18.

Anyone jus gimme some good pointers, how would i go about furthering this to the next level?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PRMoon

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It's a really basic situation that has routine directives to it. The only thing holding you back is your fear of progression.

I should add though, dipping your pen in the company ink is a big no no. If and when things go bad, you have to see that person everyday until one of you quits or gets relocated That maks life difficult.
 

TheOnE111

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mmmm very true i didnt actually think of that yet haha. Thnx tho i kinda realized wut my problem wuz before i went to sleep last night. im getting all green lights so im just gonna run with it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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