"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ive known her for about 2 weeks now, i got her # on mon an we talked on wed night.

Thurs.- no call or interaction with her from me.
Fri.- i call but no answer.

Now today (sat). She was giving me alot of kino, alot of smiling, alot of eye fuking, playing with hair. Then i kinda implied that i liked a girl that worked in our store but never mentioned her name. Later that day one of the other girl workers asked if she liked anyone of the clerks. An she told me she got all red and said "im not gonna tell you".

My question is how can you really tell if they like you? cuz i mean her body lang. shows it but is that really 100% accurate? you think i should just come clean and straight up ask her how she feels? any help would be great.and if it matters im 20 an shes 18.

Anyone jus gimme some good pointers, how would i go about furthering this to the next level?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's a really basic situation that has routine directives to it. The only thing holding you back is your fear of progression.

I should add though, dipping your pen in the company ink is a big no no. If and when things go bad, you have to see that person everyday until one of you quits or gets relocated That maks life difficult.
 
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mmmm very true i didnt actually think of that yet haha. Thnx tho i kinda realized wut my problem wuz before i went to sleep last night. im getting all green lights so im just gonna run with it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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