"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheOnE111

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Ive known her for about 2 weeks now, i got her # on mon an we talked on wed night.

Thurs.- no call or interaction with her from me.
Fri.- i call but no answer.

Now today (sat). She was giving me alot of kino, alot of smiling, alot of eye fuking, playing with hair. Then i kinda implied that i liked a girl that worked in our store but never mentioned her name. Later that day one of the other girl workers asked if she liked anyone of the clerks. An she told me she got all red and said "im not gonna tell you".

My question is how can you really tell if they like you? cuz i mean her body lang. shows it but is that really 100% accurate? you think i should just come clean and straight up ask her how she feels? any help would be great.and if it matters im 20 an shes 18.

Anyone jus gimme some good pointers, how would i go about furthering this to the next level?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PRMoon

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It's a really basic situation that has routine directives to it. The only thing holding you back is your fear of progression.

I should add though, dipping your pen in the company ink is a big no no. If and when things go bad, you have to see that person everyday until one of you quits or gets relocated That maks life difficult.
 

TheOnE111

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mmmm very true i didnt actually think of that yet haha. Thnx tho i kinda realized wut my problem wuz before i went to sleep last night. im getting all green lights so im just gonna run with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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