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tj
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lol..I only posted a couple of threads and was flamed out pretty bad..obviously there are alot of completely frustrated losers here. Horrible social skills no wonder why these guys aren't getting laid.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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tj
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Re: Re: this board
Vincent. Constructive criticism is one thing. Calling a clothing suggestion. "a piece of 5hit" tip is quite another. I would think a moderator would no the difference. But since I have been away and you have been here...I guess we just have a difference of opinon.
Desdinova
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Okay, I know you're b1tching about me. You posted a question on some type of banana clothes or some damn thing in the tips section. Let's see what the description of the tips forum has to say:
What do banana clothes have to do with understanding women?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
chill out tj, just ignore
Desdinova, he *****es about everyone
Desdinova, he *****es about everyone
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.