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tj
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lol..I only posted a couple of threads and was flamed out pretty bad..obviously there are alot of completely frustrated losers here. Horrible social skills no wonder why these guys aren't getting laid.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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tj
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Re: Re: this board
Vincent. Constructive criticism is one thing. Calling a clothing suggestion. "a piece of 5hit" tip is quite another. I would think a moderator would no the difference. But since I have been away and you have been here...I guess we just have a difference of opinon.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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Okay, I know you're b1tching about me. You posted a question on some type of banana clothes or some damn thing in the tips section. Let's see what the description of the tips forum has to say:
What do banana clothes have to do with understanding women?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
chill out tj, just ignore
Desdinova, he *****es about everyone
Desdinova, he *****es about everyone
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.